You are right, I have been married for 35 years, fell in love with my husband when I was very Young and have two children. It was always control, jealousy, power game was played by husband. He is into gambling, lying and abusive. I am at bottom of this relationship, he has been disappering in the nights, bought a house Key from one of his co-worker, this guy never been married, single and no woman in his life. I never had a benefit of doubt that, these two are planning and my husband was preparing to leave me for another guy. It was extreemly abusive and violent. Still he is abusing me emotionally and financially. I have lost everything, I have to be strong to rebuild my life and my daughter is beautifull woman, it affected her and my son also. They are professionally successful, but emotionally torned apart. Me and my children need serious help. I am ready to give this message to the world, specially women and children who are victim of the abusive family member.